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恕我直言:才来加几个月,就觉得我们很多的移民面临生活和工作的压力,都很变态,极端!

哎呦,都怎麽了,原来的你不是这样吧?!还硕士博士呢?!怎麽心理和行为都有点不大正常?!

我一直都在想这些问题, 他怎麽了? 后来我才发现, 这好像已经成了移民的一个普遍问题。和这样的人在一起不管干什麽,一个字就是‘累’!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
没别的意思,只是想提醒大家,在紧张的工作和巨大的生活压力下,请以正常平和的心态接人待物。Getting psychologically and interpersonally fit is just as important as getting physically fit !
Process to change:
1, you've got to want it,
2, you've got to learn it
3, you've got to try it
4, You've got to live it.

改了?:)You'll be appreciated, worshipped, adored and loved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • 枫下茶话 / 社会 / 恕我直言:才来加几个月,就觉得我们很多的移民面临生活和工作的压力,都很变态,极端!
    哎呦,都怎麽了,原来的你不是这样吧?!还硕士博士呢?!怎麽心理和行为都有点不大正常?!

    我一直都在想这些问题, 他怎麽了? 后来我才发现, 这好像已经成了移民的一个普遍问题。和这样的人在一起不管干什麽,一个字就是‘累’!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    没别的意思,只是想提醒大家,在紧张的工作和巨大的生活压力下,请以正常平和的心态接人待物。Getting psychologically and interpersonally fit is just as important as getting physically fit !
    Process to change:
    1, you've got to want it,
    2, you've got to learn it
    3, you've got to try it
    4, You've got to live it.

    改了?:)You'll be appreciated, worshipped, adored and loved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    • 对着来------
      早该来提个醒. 先谢了.
      • rainbaw, 你好!
        • 看演出刚到家. 面对你的问候, 特致谢意.
          • 好羡慕你!我除了偷偷地在这发一些帖子,自寻欢乐,也再没有别的去处了。
    • 才来几个月, 评价移民为时过早. 你的眼神还没正过来呢.
      • 这正是旁观者清呀!
        • 未必! 儿童眼里的大人总是很奇怪, 长大了才明白为什么世界不是用好和坏来描述. 你就欠那么点成熟.
          • So you think I am not mature enough, heh, can I ask you how psychologically mature you are.
            Age is just one of many facets that you access others, Well, some olers do experience and understand a lot while many of them just remain stupid until the end of the day, this kind of people are often not open to change.
            • A little bit understanding and patience are what you need.
              • 我谈论的是个很普遍的现象,而不是单纯我自己的问题。无论一个多通情达理的,又有耐心的人 都会成为受害者。
    • Here is the same. 男好YY, 女爱XB.
      • well, what can I say? Are you the typical one? hehe, Don't you want to be peoplesmart? If you're, I guarentee that you will be surrounded be better quality YY, hahaha
    • hope this helps you to understand your hunband better :).......agree with you partly, there are some people give hard time to themselves and others because they are not psychologically fit and enlarged the difficulties
      • 谢谢!
    • 如果看清楚这点,后悔就来不及了
      • 是啊,也有这种感觉,可这毕竟是自己的选择,怪不得别人。现在我正自己去影响他。
        I have been using my skills to inflence him, If any of the readers is experiencing the same, I strongly suggest you motivating your parter to action. By doing so, you will be able to unearth theeir needs, and link them in an effective way to what you have to offer to them.
        • If not got in the right track, motivation still get the partner nowhere. Just like a vehicle.
          • 人毕竟不是vehicle,是有思想的高级动物。如果对方真是一个vehicle, 全凭另一方的控制指挥,那也就不会有争端了。正因为他有思想,我才去影响他,帮助他。我才发帖子呼吁。