本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛12月10日早上7:55 左右,1名密西沙加市男子拨打911求助,说他杀死了自己的女儿,警方和救护人员火速赶到Hurontario St 夹Eglinton Ave East 一带该男子的住宅内,发现1名16岁女孩身受重伤奄奄一息,她立即被送往医院急救,最新的消息说,当天晚上女孩在接受生命维持数小时后,安静地死去。
ok. now that you know what 三从四德 are,could you tell me which part of it makes you not to 尊重 it? My humble opinion, historically look at it, the idea of 三从四德was not bad at all. Though it might be overused or abused to presecute women,but
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-12-13{105}(#4118273@0)
the idea itself should not resposible for that. And I believe historically it had its possitive side too.
Can not believe u has this statement? All respect gone.
-xhz(qiu);
2007-12-13(#4118378@0)
Sorry to hear that. 未嫁从父-young girls should listen to her father. Shouldn't they? 既嫁从夫-once married listen to husband. This is not something special in China,in west husband is regarded as head of family. 夫死从子,a widow has to financially
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-12-13{349}(#4118431@0)
depend on someone in old days,sons surelly were first choices. After all, I am not saying 三从四德 are all good. But it is a historical thing, we should respect it. Unfortunately we are taught 三从四德 are totally disgusting shit, on which I have to disagree to some extend. Is it possible to find back the repect you have lost to me? hehe......
真是抬扛乱搅.“从” 能翻成 listen to吗? 就算能,也该是 listen to parents。 你是生活在old day 吗? 想住棺材,一个人去
-321gold(老道);
2007-12-13(#4118500@0)
I am not saying 三从四德 applys to today. All I said was HISTORICALLY 三从四德 was not totally negative. By the way, watch your mouth,it does not make you look better, but worse.
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-12-13(#4118513@0)
一个十六岁的女孩子死了,你还兴致勃勃谈什么旧道德的历史合理性。it does not make you look better, but worse.
-321gold(老道);
2007-12-13(#4118578@0)
I was just discussing a POV "什么三从四德也是文化习俗,也应该尊重了?".I am not兴致勃勃.If there is one is getting very emotional,I believe everybody can tell that is you,not me.People should repect different opinions,that is what all this fuss about.
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-12-13(#4118632@0)
I don't believe you. I don't think it caused by religious reason. It belongs to kind of domestic violence.Tragedy.
-kingsw(Steven);
2007-12-13(#4118540@0)