Instead of just offering our personal opinions, we should also direct our lovely fellows to the right resources who have professional knowledge to support and help.
Of course, you may argue even professional people can be wrong but as a layman we may have a bigger chance to go wrong. We can give second opinion but we should always refer to professional people or in this case, encourge her and her family to seek professional supports.
I have family member who has mental challenge and I don't often agree with what the doctor suggested. But I don' t want to take the risk; so I have to disucss with the doctor more frequently to bring up my concern. But he is the final decision maker.
Of course, you may argue even professional people can be wrong but as a layman we may have a bigger chance to go wrong. We can give second opinion but we should always refer to professional people or in this case, encourge her and her family to seek professional supports.
I have family member who has mental challenge and I don't often agree with what the doctor suggested. But I don' t want to take the risk; so I have to disucss with the doctor more frequently to bring up my concern. But he is the final decision maker.