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@BC

很久不来这里了,还是就这个说几句。

我觉得首先是经济条件决定一切,我想文中的三代估计对中国是没有什么印象的,有的只是他祖父给他说的过去那个贫穷的中国,我想没有人愿意生在一个贫穷的家庭,而且那时候来加拿大的中国人很多都是偷渡,自身素质可以想象,生长在这么个家庭,对比同学,可以想象他们的感觉。但这一代新移民不同,首先是中国在发展变化,另外第一代父母的素质和眼界都远远不是原来那些人能比较的。我相信这从家庭角度来说会给后代根本的感觉变化。就象是同是白人,从英国来的和从东欧国家来的,能感觉一样吗?另外,我们要多带子女回国去看看国内的发展,这样他们谈起中国就不会没感觉甚至是自悲。
另外,为什么亚洲面孔会觉得这里的东西有些格格不入呢?因为加拿大的传统文化还主要是欧洲文化,比方说节假日,所以我们为了后代在这里有更好的主人感,我们也要多带些中国的传统和文化到加拿大来,这样在加拿大的文化中有更多的亚洲内容,可以想象后代就不会再有这种感觉了。
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  • 枫下茶话 / 社会 / Too Asian 最生气是谁?是那些二三代的香蕉人,某人在Macleans网站上的留言:It's saddening and ironic to sometimes feel like you've been somewhat denied entry to the only "nationality" you can identify with, where is my place in my own society?
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Justin · 1 week ago
    I mostly agree with Anthony here.

    Multiculturalism is slow assimilation. Regardless of whatever background you come from - within two generations (born in Canada) - you are assimilated. Yet, the fallacy of this policy is that we're supposed to celebrate our differences - but these differences are borne only of skin colour.

    I am a Canadian who happens to be of Chinese descent. The first person in my family to arrive was my great-grandfather. My family has been in Canada longer than many of my Causasian peers at UWO, yet this fact gets ignored and even discounted by those who think that being Caucasian is the basis of what makes a "Canadian". It's saddening and ironic to sometimes feel like you've been somewhat denied entry to the only "nationality" you can identify with... where is my place in my own society?

    Due to ignorance, we tend to categorize people into broad groups, without bothering to delve into their origins and histories. I'll parallel my place in this society with another "ethnic group". There is an established black presence in Nova Scotia dating back to the 1800's. Yet on a surface level, even looking at demographics and census data, they may well be lumped into the same category as recent "black" immigrants from the Caribbean areas. Is that at all fair? Absolutely not! Their experiences and senses of Canadian identity are COMPLETELY different! We need to distinguish people based on factors other than race or skin colour,

    I would say that for any established Canadian of Chinese ethnic origin, we are at the heart of this controversy. For we (possibly reluctantly) bridge the gap of understanding that is leading to the divisiveness that this article has created. And for that we take flak from people on either side of the bridge.

    I solely identify with the Canadian culture i was raised with - the Eurocentric version - but being of Asian descent i sometimes feel unaccepted by my own culture - but only from strangers know don't know me. Sometimes i am resentful of the fact that i catch your flak (for appearing Asian) - it feels like friendly fire to me - because i agree with and empathize with your sentiment. Yet is is such a shame because the cultural environment i was raised in is the source of self-loathing. So that has to change - and i do so by defying the status quo - yet i resent the fact that there has to be stereotypes i must shatter! The fact these stereotypes exist is demonstrates that my own country has failed to envelop me in a sense of inclusiveness that we as Canadians all like to think we have. That's a pretty discouraging thought to have.

    Yet i remain optimistic. Canadian history has shown that we are never rooted in our present ways. I believe this country will head in a direction that promotes not just TOLERANCE of others, but a genuine INTEREST and ACCEPTANCE of their customs and ways. Only then will be be a truly inclusive country.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • I wish my kids won't have the same feeling this guy has once he grow up..
    • 很久不来这里了,还是就这个说几句。
      我觉得首先是经济条件决定一切,我想文中的三代估计对中国是没有什么印象的,有的只是他祖父给他说的过去那个贫穷的中国,我想没有人愿意生在一个贫穷的家庭,而且那时候来加拿大的中国人很多都是偷渡,自身素质可以想象,生长在这么个家庭,对比同学,可以想象他们的感觉。但这一代新移民不同,首先是中国在发展变化,另外第一代父母的素质和眼界都远远不是原来那些人能比较的。我相信这从家庭角度来说会给后代根本的感觉变化。就象是同是白人,从英国来的和从东欧国家来的,能感觉一样吗?另外,我们要多带子女回国去看看国内的发展,这样他们谈起中国就不会没感觉甚至是自悲。
      另外,为什么亚洲面孔会觉得这里的东西有些格格不入呢?因为加拿大的传统文化还主要是欧洲文化,比方说节假日,所以我们为了后代在这里有更好的主人感,我们也要多带些中国的传统和文化到加拿大来,这样在加拿大的文化中有更多的亚洲内容,可以想象后代就不会再有这种感觉了。
      • right
      • 楼主引用的好像是当年铁路工的后代。 以前来加拿大的人很多都是通过正当途径来的,偷渡是在文革后改革开放后的事。
    • solely identify with the Canadian culture i was raised with - the Eurocentric version - but being of Asian descent i sometimes feel unaccepted by my own culture - but only from strangers know don't know me.
      文中的"my own culture " 指的是the Eurocentric version 的加拿大CULTURE.
      • 对,he feels he is under so-called friendly fire sometimes, I can understand his pain. Based on his sole experience, Canada so far is still a Exclusive country, i.e, "that being Caucasian is the basis of what makes a "Canadian".
        • it takes generations to bridge the gap.. it is also our own responsibility to move this society forward, make it more inclusive that celebrates the acceptance of every culture within it..
          we honor our own origin, we share a common value system, we stand firm on our right, we die hard to protect it from any forms of extremists..
          • Emmm, nice.
          • 介个老猫是个人才,呵呵。