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枫下茶话 / 社会 / 昨天OMNI2报导了约克大学研究的中国移民送年幼婴儿和孩子回中国的部分结果。那些孩子被称为‘太空子女’,研究主要FOCUS怎么解决这个负面影响,政府资源如何可以帮助等等。中国社区是第一个被研究了,之后还要研究其他族裔的太空子女问题
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-12
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这是很自然的事情。没有什么值得研究的。
-happpyfuture(ED);
2009-5-12
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不知道算不算东西方文化差异. 很少听说过西人不把小孩放身边养的. 咱们在中国时, 因为工作原因, 小孩托爷爷奶奶家里养的挺常见的.
-sailor(Shall we dance?);
2009-5-13
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i guess there is a bit 文化差异 in this.... the way people deal with the "samll family" and extended big family, are different.....
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2009-5-13
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这边西人老人家也有帮子女义务看孩子的,特别是在意大利,葡萄牙等社区,但送子女离开加拿大比较少,嘿嘿
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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Actually, a lot of western parents send their kids to boarding school if they can financailly support.
-hkchan(*);
2009-5-13
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好多是富裕的父母那样做,多数父母还是没有的,一个是金钱多少的问题,另外一个是父母忙碌的程度,嘿嘿,某种意义上说,送子女进入好的BOARDING SCHOOL是一个身份地位象征的问题,但也不尽然,比如HARPER总理的子女就读公校,他每天送孩子上学呢
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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You are right. There is actually another similar problem, a lot of Chinese immigrants left their kids in Canada while they are making money in China.I heard some kids told their friends about how their parents could buy a million dollars plus penthouse with cash. It is kind of put themselves in a dangerous position.
-hkchan(*);
2009-5-13
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这个有些不同,嘿嘿,这次研究的是移民父母把BABIES的或者很小很小的孩子送回中国,等他们长大了才又回到加拿大。而你说这个,好多是孩子已经中学毕业,到这边留学
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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They are differnet social problems. Those I know are actually university graduate. I just feel uncomfortable for them to discuss how rich their family is in a open public.
-hkchan(*);
2009-5-13
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嘿嘿,我觉得这里小留的圈子里面虚荣和比较的成分比较多。也不是所有的小留家里也都真正有钱,但谈论家里有钱很有面子吧
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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they put themselves in a potential dangerous position.
-hkchan(*);
2009-5-13
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嘿嘿,西人估计理财观念不同,不象中国人这样对银行存款多少和是否拥有房子这么在意,他们也在意,但一般不会牺牲生活质量来成为钱的奴隶和房奴。其实,好多送孩子会中国的移民不一定比其他西人钱少,但要急着买房子,或者拿学位。。。。
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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嘿嘿,这个研究很有必要的,可以帮助政府制定政策和提供资源,减少这种情况。那个报告发现,孩子离开加拿大,然后回来,又要重新适应,带来很多问题,对大人和孩子都很困难。现在关注这个问题很必要,觉得政府也没有完全浪费纳税人的钱
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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其它祖裔也有吗?我还以为是中国特色呢。
-402(WOW);
2009-5-12
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嘿嘿,现在还不知道,不过报道说,研究完了中国社区,还要研究别的社区,但没有明指哪个别的社区,不过都会使移民社区
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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昨天在star网络版看到,很多comments。。。
-petqueen(koko);
2009-5-12
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and some of the comments are really mean.
-bti2005(jujube);
2009-5-12
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Some of them think it the same way as the Tamil put their children in the front line of the protest. The parents don't really care the kids.
-yahoo11(canada);
2009-5-12
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嘿嘿,我理解那个MEAN,同时,我本人也反对,坚决反对把孩子送离开加拿大,因为对我来说,房子,存款和学位都比不过孩子这么重要。
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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你这么关心孩子,连生一个都不敢,白说
-vega_lee(天津包子-就不改);
2009-5-13
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包子大哥好,嘿嘿,我敢生的,
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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那你等什么?等房子,存款和学位都够了?等你有了这些再生,跟别人没啥区别
-vega_lee(天津包子-就不改);
2009-5-13
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因为先生说,有孩子以后要全职做妈妈呢,这个从一开始就吓死了我,嘿嘿,现在谈不通,他有太多计划给没有出世的孩子,我觉得累,很累很累呢,嘿嘿
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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嘿嘿,我觉得我和先生在孩子的问题上有非常严重的代沟
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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你先生多大年纪了,思想观念这么不先进~~~lol
-sr-71(Blackbird);
2009-5-13
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还没有40岁呢,嘿嘿,但家庭很传统,他们家的女生生孩子以后都没有工作了,而我们家从妈妈开始,就没有家庭妇女了
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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我并不是说家庭主妇上班或者在家这两种方式哪一种先进,我的意思是说这个不是男人决定而是女人根据自己意愿决定,为女人画圈这个做法太迂腐~~~抱歉了,多有得罪
-sr-71(Blackbird);
2009-5-13
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嘿嘿,我也觉得他迂腐呢,不过,希望以后有变化了
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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kind of surprise to hear what you said, because most of the stories I heard was the other way. The husbands want to have baby but the wives want their career.
-hkchan(*);
2009-5-13
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嘿嘿,我的意思和你听到的一样哦。我想有孩子,但还上班(一年产假以后上班),但先生说最好不上班了,或者至少等孩子小学结束以后上班,很恐怖
-newyeartoronto(松鼠回家啦);
2009-5-13
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You are going to waste 10+ years! Altough I know a few successful cases that mother started to working after their kids went to univesity, but really, really rare!I can't comment for every family but most families (no matter Candian or Chinese) I know can't afford to have single income. Even if I can afford, I would prefer to have double income to secure a better peace of mind, i.e. what if I got laid off next week, I have a backup.
But mind you, if you have baby, you may not be able to work 7 - 11 or 100 hours per week. Other than that, a lot of full time working parents in Canada.
-hkchan(*);
2009-5-13
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link?
-yesiam(party time);
2009-5-13
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